When You’re Talking, You’re Losing


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Can you convert a prospect without explaining how you will manage their investments? Advisors should focus on establishing trust with potential clients, but what happens when all that person wants to do is talk about risk?

I counsel clients to start meetings by asking questions intended to get to know the prospect as a person, rather than as someone with assets you want to manage. Typically, advisors will ask something like this: “Tell me about yourself.” They will then ask questions that naturally flow from this response.

While my process is easy to articulate, it is difficult for some advisors to implement. They are so wedded to a script designed to “get down to business” that breaking their ingrained habit is challenging.

Most of the time, the process goes smoothly. The conversation can take some unexpected turns, as prospects relax, secure in the knowledge that the advisor has a genuine interest in them. Advisors report that prospects have opened up about intimate details of their life, and often exclaim that they have “never discussed this with anyone.”

Once that level of trust is established, the prospect is likely to become a client.