Getting the First Meeting with a Female Client

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Industry leaders tell us what not to say with female clients and what women want in an advisor. What is virtually unanswered, though, is how advisors can meet female prospects.

From the perspective of someone who is female and was an advisor, here’s what I would do.

Don’t be a social media sniper

Have you seen some of the female entrepreneur groups on Facebook?

Especially the ones about “mompreneurs.” These groups are on fire. People are throwing videos up right and left, chatting, doing deals. They’re money-making machines, some of these women. It’s not just Facebook – on LinkedIn you will find the Citi Connect group, which has over 460,000 members.

Even if you’re not female, you can still join and participate in these groups. The group owner may ask you why you are interested before approving you, but as long as you have a good reason that doesn’t involve selling them products you will get approved.

Don’t be a social media “sniper.” You know these people. They get into the group, spray around content and then don’t even stick around to see if anyone commented on it. Or, they just start posting into groups without taking the time to participate in other people’s discussions or to understand what the group is really trying to accomplish.

Would you go to a cocktail party and act out a sniper routine, yelling out something to a group of people and then leaving before anyone has even a chance to respond?

No.